You can send wink/smiles from member’s profile section. Go to member’s profile and in menu bar click smile option. It will send a wink/smile to this user.
Note: Your smiles count message limit per day.
You do not have a limit to send message to users but it`s limit on member’s numbers.
Premium members can send unlimited message to unlimited members per day.
Free members can send only message to 5 members per day.