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    Welcome to the Mandate.com community home page.

    Like any community, we have standards. We do not allow anyone to FLAME or otherwise abuse any of our members. Hold your tongue – unless you are on your knees!

    Chats and posts of a sexually explicit nature are not only tolerated – they are encouraged. We want you to get down and dirty. Don't be a bone killer. Tell us your dirtiest secrets and we will tell your ours.

    Cum inside our bulletin boards and chat rooms and get ready for a nasty ride!

  • FAQ - Registration/Account

    Welcome back! Thanks again for paying a visit to Mandate.com. We are here to help you have a great time on the site. Here are some of the FAQ's that many people have. Please read this area before using the Contact Us area to save time. Our support staff works hard and you will help us out if you read over this area first!


    1. It won't let me use the handle I want.

    That means someone else is already registered with that handle, so you'll have to pick a new one. Think of it this way, you already have something in common with him, so look him up!


    2. I'm registered but I can't get in.

    If you have never logged in before, perhaps your account has not been activated. To activate it, retrieve the e-mail we sent to your e-mail account and click on the activation link. If you have been using the site and are just having problems today, try the reset Password link to be sure you are using the right username and password. If this still doesn't work, click the Contact Us link on the top menu bar and ask for help and we will assist.


    3. Can I lie on my registration form?

    Have some pride. We cannot verify all of the information you provide. However as soon as you have your first hook up, you will be outed. Why waste your time?


    4. Can I change my Name on the site?

    We will be happy to change your screen name on the site. Your buddy list, e-mails, etc will NOT be affected. Only your name will change. To do this, simply go to My account section and click on Username. Be sure new user name do not match with existing users. Then enter your new username and password and click on save.


    5. How do I change my location from one city to another city?

    If you want to change your location on Mandate.com, go to My Account, Edit Location and enter your location or drag and drop location icon on Google map and click save.


    6. What if I still have problems?

    We have several points of contact for additional problems. First, check the FAQ often; we update it as we encounter issues. We also check the bullet in boards on a regular basis, so if you can access the boards, simply state the problem there for others members to assist. If you need administrative help, click on the Contact Us button, leave us a VERY detailed message and we will try to assist you.


    7. I don't want Search Engines to read my data. What can I do to prevent this?

    Go to your account information area and click Preferences and set the Search Preference to Members Only. This will also prohibit anyone visiting the site from seeing your information.

  • FAQ - Verify Account

    If you are not received any verification mail you can send email to verify@mandate.com from your registered email and our system will automatically verify your account. It will take maximum 1 hour after your mail received but it is usually within a few minutes.

  • FAQ - Delete Account

    If you want to delete your account at Mandate.com login to your account and click on your profile picture at right side top section. At the very bottom, you can see delete account link. Click on it or simply send email to us on delete@mandate.com. system will automatically delete your account.

  • FAQ - Turn Off Account

    If you want to turn off your account at Mandate.com login to your account and click on your profile picture at right side top section. At the very bottom you can see turn off link. Click on it your profile will no longer in search. When you login back to site your account automatically turn on again.

  • FAQ - Photos

    Welcome back! Thanks again for paying a visit to Mandate.com. We are here to help you have a great time on the site. Here are some of the FAQ's that many people have. Please read this area before using the Contact Us area to save time. Our support staff works hard and you will help us out if you read over this area first!

    1. I want to post my picture, but I can't get it up!

    To add your pic to your profile, simply log in, and click your profile picture on right side top corner and then Photos. Once you see the photos heading, click Add Photo. From there, click Upload and browser your computer for the images you wish to add. A thumbnail of the image will appear, click Upload and it will be added. You can select several photos at once. Maximum acceptable photo storage size is 2MB. Pictures will be automatically adjusted to web friendly images.

    2. How Do I unlock my Private Photos for someone?

    If they request it, you will get a Private Message on the site. When you get this message, you can choose to approve the request to unlock or deny the request. If you want to unlock for someone who has not requested, go to their profile and below the profile Picture there is an setting tab. Click on that and it will show setting screen turn on private photo option for that individual.

    3. Why are there no pictures of naked chicks?

    This site is run by gay men for gay men. If you want pussy you have come to the wrong place. Of course, you are welcome to hang around. You might find something you like better. Our men are in a good mood all month long.

    4. Why am I having problems uploading photos?

    There are many possible reasons:

    1. We certainly welcome you to try again to upload your pictures to the site. We do make a couple of suggestions that might help you to be more successful with the upload. First, the best file format for web pics is the jpg format.
    2. Second, there are many programs out there for converting images, but you should never use Paint as it saves them incorrectly for the web.
    3. Third, make sure the files are a good size for the web, its best if they are around 500 KB, but never more then 2MB.
    4. Fourth, if you have Microsoft Office it usually includes a free picture tool that is fairly easy to use.
    5. Fifth, pictures taken from a web cam will almost always fail in the upload process, convert them and do a save as using a picture program.
    5. Why was my photo deleted?

    If we deleted one or more of your photos there are four basic causes for this:
    1. The photo had a second person in it. We do not allow photos of people that we don't believe have given you permission.
    2. The photo could have a cc symbol on it. If so, we delete automatically as they are not allowed on the site.
    3. Someone reported that there was a problem with your photo and it is under review by the administrators of the site.
    4. . The photo did not have you in the pic. If we don't see you or a part of your body in the photo, we delete it. We want to see you in EVERY photo you upload to the site.
    5. Your pictures contained words or links to other sites which is prohibited by our terms of use or which is copyrighted by another source.

    6. What if I still have problems?

    We have several points of contact for additional problems. First, check the FAQ often; we update it as we encounter issues. We also check the bulletin boards on a regular basis, so if you can access the boards, simply state the problem there for others members to assist. If you need administrative help, click on the Contact Us button, leave us a VERY detailed message and we will try to assist you.

  • FAQ - Videos

    We have several points of contact for additional problems. First, check the FAQ often; we update it as we encounter issues. We also check the bulletin boards on a regular basis, so if you can access the boards, simply state the problem there for others members to assist. If you need administrative help, click on the Contact Us button, leave us a VERY detailed message and we will try to assist you.

    1. I want to post my Video, but I can't get it up!

    To add your video to your profile, simply log in, and click your profile picture on right side top corner and then Videos. Once you see the videos heading, click Add Video. From there, click Upload and browser your computer for the Videos you wish to add. A thumbnail of the image will appear, click Upload and it will be added. You can select several Videos at once but it`s good practice to upload single video at one time and only MP4,MOV videos are allow to upload

    2. Why am I having problems uploading videos?

    There are many possible reasons:

    1. 1) The file was too large.
    2. 2) The file format was not formatted as mention.
    3. 3) The file size of the video was way too large.
    5. Why was my video deleted?

    If we deleted one or more of your videos there are four basic causes for this:
    1. The video had something inappropriate in it.
    2. Someone reported that there was a problem with your video and it is under review by the administrators of the site.

    6. What if I still have problems?

    We have several points of contact for additional problems. First, check the FAQ often; we update it as we encounter issues. We also check the bulletin boards on a regular basis, so if you can access the boards, simply state the problem there for others members to assist. If you need administrative help, click on the Contact Us button, leave us a VERY detailed message and we will try to assist you.

  • FAQ - Sex Party

    You can add sex parties from my account section. Click on your profile picture at the right top corner go to sex party menu and click on Add party button. Then enter the party details and save it. Admin will review and approve it. After admin approval party will show in search party section. If you make any change after approval, it will again go to admin approval and then only see in search result.
    Party members
    You can allow and reject members who applied for party. Go to sex party menu and select your listed party then click on member list button. You can see list of members who applied to your party. From here you can allow and reject requests. System will send Private message to user on approval and rejection.
  • FAQ - Sex Ads

    You can add sex ads now from my account section. Click on your profile picture at the right top corner go to sex ads menu and click on Add ads button. Then enter the ads details and save it. It will display in search ad section immediately.
  • FAQ - Delete Browser Cookies

    How do I clear my web browser's cache, cookies, and history for Mandate?
    For Mozilla Firefox - Windows/Liunx/Mac/Ubantu

    1. From the Edit menu, select preferences.(If the menu bar is hidden, press Alt to make it visible.)

    2. Goto privacy tab.

    3. You can see following line in this tab.
    "You may want to clear your recent history, or remove individual cookies."

    4. click on remove individual cookies.

    5. Now you can see cookies search box.
    Type "Mandate.com" in search bar.

    6. Select and remove following cookies name authid
    _bb_key
    avtar
    bbauth
    fname
    lname
    uname

    7. Logout from site (if login) and restart the browser.

    For Chrome

    1. In the browser bar, enter: chrome://settings/

    2. Got to the privacy tab

    3. Select content settings.

    4. You can see all cookies tab under that click on all cookies and site data.

    5. Now you can see cookies search box.
    Type "Mandate.com" in search bar.

    6. Just clicking cross sing of the right hand side to remove cookies.

    7. Restart Browser.

    For Opera

    1. From the Opera menu, select Settings, and then preferences.

    2. In the dialog box that opens, select the advance tab.

    3. click on cookies on left hand side and then manage cookies.

    4. Now you can see cookies search box. Type "Mandate.com" in search bar.

    5. Select Mandate.com and click on delete.

    6. Restart Browser.

    For Safari

    1. From the Safari menu, select preference.

    2. go to privacy tab.

    3. You can see "Details Button" click on it.

    4.You can see cookies list for all site search "Mandate.com " and remove all.

    For Mobile Safari for iPhone OS (iPhone, iPod touch, iPad)

    To clear cache and cookies:

    1. From the home screen, tap Settings, and then tap Safari.

    2. At the bottom of Safari's settings screen, tap Clear cookies and data, or Clear Cookies and Clear Cache. Confirm when prompted.

    3. Restart Browser.

    For Internet Explorer 10

    1. Click Tools, INTERNET option and go to General tab.

    2. You can see "browsing history" section.

    3. Click Delete.

    4. Select Preserve Favorites website data, and select Temporary Internet files, Cookies, and History.

    5. Click Delete.

    6. Restart Browser.

    For Internet Explorer 9 and 8

    1. Click Tools, and select Delete Browsing History.

    2. Select Preserve Favorites website data, and select Temporary Internet files, Cookies, and History.

    3. Click Delete.

    4. Restart Browser.

    For Internet Explorer 7

    1. From the Tools menu in the upper right, select Delete Browsing History.

    2. To delete your cache, click Delete files.

    3. To delete your cookies, click Delete cookies.

    4. Click Close, and then click OK to exit.

    5. Restart Browser.